Joan began working with this population more than 25 years ago, with a majority of those years as an activity coordinator for the Adult Day Health program at Sno-Valley Senior Center in Carnation. Perhaps because of her vast experience with this population, she has developed a very accessible style and creates a comfortable welcoming environment allowing members to feel at home very quickly. She is also the creator and designer of “Shake Loose a Memory,” a game using dice and cards that encourage memory in a social setting without the social pressure. Joan says each day brings new experience and that she continues to learn from each member. “Each one of us is unique in our personality and what we have personally lost to dementia,” she says, adding that she thinks everyone needs to respect and be respected for both.

Joan is always working to help members connect with themselves, their past and present, and with each other. “The day most special to me is when someone recalls a memory… and they are able to share their story with a group of friends.” She says it’s nice to see everyone listening, while some are remembering their own experiences and might even chime in to create a group discussion—people who may not be able to do that often or in any other situation. She says, “That’s a great feeling!” We have great feelings about Joan, too.

Activity Director - Carnation, WA

Joan Wheeler

Ashley has always had a passion for helping others. Whether it was attending to the needs of patients during her clinical training as a nursing assistant or caring for and rehabilitating abused pigs at an animal sanctuary she volunteered at, helping others in need is what fulfills her the most. Through these experiences, she has learned the importance of having patience, perspective, and compassion for all beings. Her bachelor’s degree in Mathematics has honed her critical thinking skills, allowing her to analyze situations and develop timely and thoughtful solutions, which is essential when working with people living with dementia. Moreover, Ashley has watched her grandmother move through the stages of dementia and realized through engaging with her that Old Friends Club was the perfect place to put her skills to work in helping those with similar needs.

Activity Director 

Ashley Jorgensen

Paul is the newest member of Old Friends Club. He earned his degree in Social Welfare from Middle Tennessee State University. Afterward, he began his career in long term healthcare promoting Quality of Life for populations living with Alzheimer’s and late-stage dementia. During his tenure working in long term healthcare, Paul became an Eden Associate. As an Eden Associate, Paul's main focus was to ensure that “each person felt they had value in society and their voice was heard”. He worked daily to provide meaningful activities and promote social interaction. Paul received extensive training learning the techniques necessary to build successful relationships and trust within the populations he works with. Paul relocated to the state of Washington in December 2019 and is excited to bring his energy and friendship as he joins Old Friends Club.

Activity Director 

Paul Roberts